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Ain't it boggarific?
Tuesday February 7, 2006 11:46p

I'm trying out a new blog engine. Just click anywhere in this post or in the title and check it out. Depending on how it goes there may be some site revamping to happen... Read the new blog. I already explained more there and I want to go lay down. That's right, I said it...

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WARNING: Guitar Geek talk ahead
Monday February 6, 2006 11:46p

I am attempting brevity this evening; we’ll see how I do.

I have been told that Prince was the musical gust on Saturday Night Live this past Saturday and he tore it up. I didn’t see it, I was out seeing a pretty cool local band, Ripplegroove. If anyone recorded the show (Saturday Night Live, that is) I would love to see it. I looked around online but could not find it in my perfunctory searches.

I took my Mesa Nomad guitar amp in to a shop to get repaired. It blew up a little while ago. I really miss it, plus I really want it back as I ramp up towards playing live again. The shop was out in College area so since I was out East I stopped by Guitar Center (dis-affectionately known as Banjo Center from here on out...). I wanted to check out the Music Man John Petrucci model guitar. I have an Ernie Ball Music Man Silhouette which I really dig and have been reading all sorts of good things about the Petrucci model. I wanted to compare it against my Silhouette (and my new Parker Fly – which I also really dig) to see how it stacked up. It was a very nice guitar but after spending 15 or so minutes with it I can say with confidence that it is no better then my Silhouette, which is cool, since I really like my Silhouette. Plus the last thing I need to do is figure out how to spend $1100 on a new guitar (my Silhouette was $950 almost 15 years ago, in case you were wondering…). One angle the Petrucci guitar has going for it is a piezo pickup in the bridge for a pretty damn decent electric-acoustic guitar sound. So now I am planning on installing a piezo system in my Parker Fly. Eventually. Maybe with some tax return money, after I pay back Brian for the golf tournament and snow board trip, of course. If nothing else the whole experience reminded of how much I dislike going into Banjo Center. Too many schmucks, too many kids trying to impress all the other kids in the store, too many salespeople that think they know what they’re talking about. Although this time the dude that helped me out was pretty cool and didn’t try to lay the heavy sales trip on me, so that was a nice change. I only go to Banjo Center anyway because they have just about everything so I can get some hands on time with the gear and then leave and either buy it from a local shop or online. So I suppose Banjo Center serves a purpose, you just have to deal with some crap to make it useful. Oh yeah.

I’ve been looking at ads online (mostly the Reader online) and have actually found a few bands looking for guitar players. Most have websites with sample songs. I haven’t really dug what I’ve found so far, so I have to decide if it’s more important to me to get into a band and get some playing in or hold out for something that I actually can see myself getting into musically. The unfortunate thing is that I have found a few guys with some cool stuff, but it’s just single guys looking for others, like a bass player looking to start a band. I don’t know if I want to start from the ground up with someone else’s vision. I think if I’m going to really start from scratch I might want to be selfish and make it my project, not join into someone else’s, but we’ll see. I’m just happy that I’ve found some opportunities; even if it does end up that I’m not the right guy for them. All I can do is try. I figure as soon as I get my Mesa back and have my real rig ready to go I’ll start making some calls and meeting some folks. I figure I should wait until I have my real rig so I can make the best first impression.

All right, I almost kept it brief. I am gonna sign off now. Futurama’s on and I gotta get and go back to work tomorrow morning after these last two days off. Y’all keep it real. But seriously, if you have the Prince performances on Saturday Night live on tape (or DVR…) let me know. I want ot see it.

Awight, late.

12 months do a year make
Thursday February 2, 2006 11:14p

Well, it was one year ago today that Craig was killed. In many ways it has gotten easier to think about and in many ways it’s just as difficult to think about as it was a year ago. I can tell you this with complete conviction; the past twelve months were absolutely not what I had imagined they would be as we turned the corner into the decidedly fateful year of two thousand and five.

I have learned many things this past year. I’ve learned that your extended family of friends is just as important to you and your well being as your biological family. I’ve learned how amazingly strong some of those people can be. I’ve learned that apparently I care about my job more than I thought I did. And I have reaffirmed my belief that life is too short and too precious to take anything for granted.

While I feel that it is important to remember the past there is also danger in dwelling on the past. I have tried to live my life in the belief that if I have no control over a situation then it’s a waste of time and emotional energy to dwell on such things. That is the main reason I don’t watch the news. The modern and sensationalistic news media is obsessed with tragedy and disaster. I can sympathize for the families of a plane crash or the victims of a seemingly senseless shooting, but what benefit is there in the constant retelling of the same tragedies night after night? The entertainment media seem to expend an amazing amount of money and energy inflating celebrities solely for the satisfaction of sensationalizing the gory details of their failures and eventual downfall from the public eye. I hate reality shows. Why should I watch people I don’t know fight and argue on TV? For me there is no enjoyment in the pain of others. I have even found as I’ve gotten older that there are movies and programs that I have seen and enjoy that I will turn off as uncomfortable scenes approach. Dead Poet Society is one of my favorite movies of all time but I have great difficulty watching the last half hour of the film. I’ve come to realize that there is enough tragedy and negativity in my real life that I have no interest in reliving such things in the fantasy world. That being said, I have also learned that it is far easier for me to watch emotionally challenging films or TV shows with other people. I don’t know if it’s a macho thing and I don’t allow myself to fully engage when I am with other people, I am still learning about that aspect of myself. If I figure it out I’ll let you know. All I will say is that if I’m in the right frame of mind and space even a freakin’ sitcom like That 70s Show can choke me up. Oy…

What was I saying? Oh yes, don’t dwell on the past. There are lessons to be learned, there is respect to be paid and there are people who should never be forgotten. But we live a temporal existence and life is about moving forward. If you focus too much of your energy on past events, especially negative events, then you flavor your future days with an unfair negative bent. Life deserves more than that from you. There is also danger of dwelling on the positive things in the past. If you believe that your senior year of high school was the best year of your life then subconsciously you are setting yourself up for future failure and disappointment. There is of course also the very real danger of always looking to the future and taking for granted what is happening in the present. There is a delicate balance that must be attained. Towards that end I believe that if you focus on the present and live the best way that you know how then the future will be positive and rewarding by the very nature of such actions. Yes, that sounds somewhat naïve and a little “new age-y” but I think such attitudes can be successfully applied to a modern, pragmatic and realist lifestyle. In many ways I believe that it is tied in with my belief that “man” is fundamentally good. I believe that I should be kind and do well by myself and others simply because it is the right thing to do. In living this way the world is a better place and I will benefit by having a happier life and setting myself up for future success. But I don’t feel it is my duty be a proper and righteous person because that is what society or my chosen deity deems fit for me to be. I also do not have an agenda. I am not compelled to act proper because that is how to succeed in life, how the game is played, so to speak. It is possible to be an amazingly strong and powerful person without really doing anything that is outwardly amazing or powerful. I have no choice at the moment but to believe their facts, but a good example of what I’m saying can be found in a recent “Truth” anti-tobacco company ad which states:

A tobacco company once gave $125,000 worth of food to a charity, according to an estimate by The Wall Street Journal. Then they spent well over $21 million telling people about it. I guess, when you sell a deadly, addictive product, you need all the good PR you can get.

If the motive is misguided can such a “good deed” benefit the benefactor? I suppose in this instance the tobacco company took that into their own hands (and checkbooks.). A wise man is reported to have said that pride is a sin. While I consider that to be somewhat of a blanket statement (which has been used as a copout by far too many people through the centuries) I do sympathize with the intent. And since the last thing I want is to start a religious debate…

Perhaps one of my problems is that I haven’t been in a band in a loooooooooooooong time. I have played with some folks out here on the left coast. I was even almost in a real project with Tamara back many a year ago (remember her? Good times…) but I haven’t been in a real “band” with a free and emotionally charged exchange of musical energies in over a decade. I do make plenty of music-type noises all by my lonesome and there is a an emotional release but it’s not the same as sharing an almost mystical moment with a group of people who know each other so well as to be on the same psychic wavelength, if even only for a few moments. Maybe that’s why I’m not in a relationship, I haven’t found someone that can compete with a good band… well, that may be stretching it a bit… but it’s something to think about… maybe I need to find a woman that plays a mean bass… anyone…? Anyways……………

Like I mentioned I have learned that life is too precious to take for granted. It can be a challenge sometimes but I really try to live by that doctrine. How can you truly appreciate what you have if you aren’t thankful for having it? That is also an aspect of loss that can be positive and provide growth. When you know longer have something in your life, especially something as precious as a friend or loved one then it gives you cause to stop and reflect and what you do have. It is in these situations that you realize what truly matters in your life. It’s important to fully embrace the important things in life. The challenge is in not slipping back into complacency. I like the idea of seeing life through the eyes of a child, everyday is a brand new day full of amazing experiences and wonder. It is all a matter of perspective. If you have ever created something and then sat by as you displayed the fruits of your labor to a peer then you have experienced this experience, seeing yourself through the eyes of another, in a manner of speaking. I can listen to my own music all day long and be intimately familiar with every note and pause, but the first time I sit and listen to a new song with someone else it’s suddenly a brand new song. I suddenly hear things and really feel things that I never heard or felt before. It is an amazing experience, and be quite humbling in the right circumstances. The irony is that the more you focus on something the more you tend to lose sight of it. It’s the ‘ole forest for the trees thing. You are so obsessed with the details of the bark and the vein patterns on the leaves of the knotty pine that you completely lose perspective and lose the beauty of the whole experience. I’ve worked for hours on a 15 second section of a new song only to listen back afterwards and realize that the flow of the song was completely ruined. It’s so easy to get wrapped up in the minutiae of life that you completely miss what is happening around you. Have you ever spent a few hours in a grumpy mood raking leaves in the yard, frustrated that you had to waste a valuable day off dealing with dead leaves when you take a break and suddenly realize what a beautiful and amazing fall day it was and that you almost missed it? Well, I suppose you So Cal folk may not have had to worry about the leaves, but I can tell you it happens all too easily. Take time out to stop, close your eyes, take a deep breath and just live the moment. Notice the clouds or enjoy the warm breeze. It’s all about the details and it’s the little things in life that make it all worth living.

Oh boy, I have waxed on and on tonight. It felt right, so I hope you weren’t bored or offended. I need to get into bed before Adult Swim so I’ll leave with a few last words for the end of this thought provoking and emotional anniversary day.

In Taoist terms as one travels “the way” and eventually becomes truly enlightened he or she becomes a Sage. From the Tao te Ching, Chapter 77:

A Sage can keep giving
because there is no end to his wealth.
He acts without expectation,
succeeds without taking credit,
and doesn’t think that he is better
than anyone else.

Craig was my boss, my friend and a true Sage and I miss him every single day.

Peace.


toddley

Oh look, free time...
Tuesday January 24, 2006 9:35p
So apparently I picked a busy time to start blogging again. Since I last uploaded an update I have been going like mad. I spent four days in Northern Cali snowboarding at Mammoth Mountain. Then as soon as I got home I hung out with buddies from MI (Scott and John, wassup!) for a long weekend and some more. Then it was diving head first back into madness at work. At least it helps the day go by, I suppose. Most days there aren’t enough hours in the day these days. The word day occurred far too many times in that last sentence… anyway…

Yes, too busy at work. In fact I managed to barely escape a fairly substantial faux pas, so to speak. For those who may not know, at the World we host special corporate events all winter long and if the client wants to pony up the extra cash they can get a fireworks show, shot from Mission Bay. It is my responsibility to arrange for the pyro company (Fireworks America) to do the show. Yesterday just before lunch I got a call to confirm that the fireworks were all ready to go for that night… I didn’t know about a fireworks show… uh oh… I got a hold of Fireworks America and after a few tense hours they were able to make last minute arrangements for permits and operators and there was a fireworks show last night. They saved my arse, I tell you what. I HATE it when I screw up like that. I had absolutely no excuse, I just missed it. Oy…

So aside from my failures of late it’s been pretty darned busy. From what I understand there has been a decision made and the position has been offered for my new Supervisor, so if all goes well I will soon have a boss who can take some of the projects and tasks that I probably really shouldn’t be doing anyway. I hope so, I could use the help.

Musically I am once again in somewhat of a lull, but I can feel the need percolating very near the surface. I don’t know how much new music I will end up working on in the near future but I am definitely feeling the need to perform. I really want to get into a band of some sort, whether it’s a group I assemble or a group I join as a guitarist, if such a thing as a band needed a guitarist can be found. I am excited about the prospect of some long distance song writing. Scott, John and I have vowed to send files back and forth across the country thanks to the marvel that is broadband internet. We can get stuff together and send files off to each other to add and contribute some interesting bits. I think there is great potential and it should be pretty cool. Of course I have a serious project that I need to continue working on. I am creating a jungle themed version of the Wedding March for my sister Kim’s wedding in March. I have some ideas but I have yet to get anything for real down on “tape”. Beyond that I still have the “Caged Voltage” project sitting in the back of my musical transom. It’s a rock symphony about an electrified monkey. I have an overture and a basic idea of what I want to do but I want to make sure that I attack it seriously and give it the attention I feel it deserves. I also want to do a collection of 18th and 19th century traditional Scottish tunes done in a modern rock band style. I did some fife and drum tunes way back in the day that people seemed to like and I really want to revisit the concept and see it through as a complete and fully produced project. We shall see. At least I have some things to keep me busy for the rest of the year… and most likely beyond… for a few days, anyway.

New Beginnings
Saturday January 14, 2006 10:10p
I figured I'd start out the new year with a good website update and a fresh approach at the 'ole Daily Journal. I am hoping that by simplifying the process I will be more likely to make posts and keep up with it. We shall see, yes. We shall see.

My life is going fairly well, i would say. I am very happy and excited about the newest collection of tunes, the new "album" as it were. I have decided that while I want to share the music that I create with the world, in the end I am making music that I like to listen for me to listen to. I am finding that I am still listening to the new songs a lot. Petty much every day I listen to several of the tracks, if nothing else in the car on the way to work. I am inching closer and closer to putting together my own group. What I am not so sure about is whether or not I want a real singer or if I want to try the whole singer frontman thing on my own. I am liking the idea of following in the footsteps of other guitairsts and forming groups with actual good singers, like Jeff beck finding Rod Stewart, or Ritchie Blackmore and the various singers in Rainbow, most noteably Ronnie James Dio. I realize the blasphemous nature of comparing myself to these legendary guitar players, I am merely using them as a point of reference, not trying to say that I am anywhere in their league as a player or a person. But enough of that...

I just realized that I flaked tonight on a buddy of mine, Mel. His band Audio-Out played at a joint called the Hot Monkey Love Cafe and I got so wrapped up in this website business that I completely forgot to go. I'm bummed out, I wanted to see them and show support. I only hope that there was a good turnout of SeaWorld folk to vill the void. Sorry Mel (and Matt and Scott).

Well, I think that's where I'll stop tonight. Besides I put in the film Being Human (starring Robin Williams with music by Philip Glass) to have something in the background (because TV sucks and I'm trying not to watch too much TV anyway) and now I'm getting sucked in and distracted. It's a good film, I recommend it. So, since I seem to be watching the film more than coding web pages I think i'll stop and start uploading. I'll be back soon...

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